I am (for that matter this community) not against marriage. Marriage is a beautiful institution. Spending your entire life with someone, having kids and wonderful family – these are nice things to have.

But not everyone fits into same basket. In our society people get married by default. We have never given a chance to have an opinion on marriage.

Get married if you wish to. Stay away if you wish to. There is no right or wrong. It’s all about individual choices we make for ourselves!

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Some Food For Thought

Why You Should Never Get MarriedThis article talks about 11 reasons why it is perfectly okay to never get married.

 

Why It’s Perfectly Okay To Not Get Married | Life Hacker IndiaYou can have a happy married life only if you can find peace and joy with someone within the four walls of a room, and feel the warmth with your partner that

 

Don’t you need to satisfy your physical needs?

We don’t buy aeroplane ticket to access free water. Do we? No. Period.

Who will take care of you when you will be 60?

Old age homes. I’m not kidding. I can imagine many singles around when I reach 60. In 2046, there will be many professionally run old age homes. I’ll find one!

You won’t realize importance of marriage now. But will realize when you get old. What will you do by then?

Fair enough. Old means? When I reach 40, 50? This may be true. But I can’t even imagine life 2 years down the line. Life is so vibrant and constantly changing. How do I imagine life 10-20 years down the line? Also, nothing comes with a guarantee. Marriage doesn’t guarantee happiness in old age!

You need a better half. Don’t you?

Shouldn’t we be complete by ourselves? How can we be happy if we are not complete one by ourselves? We don’t need two halves to make one happy. We need two fulls (completes) to make a happy pair.

 

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